Fushuan [he/him]

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  • Fushuan [he/him]@lemm.eeto196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneWisdom Rule
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    1 month ago

    Yeah sorry if it came that way, not my intention. When referring to “lots of people” I quite literally meant that I know a gay guy that wouldn’t touch a vagina even if he was paid, so saying that if a dude liked a pre op transman is 100% gay doesn’t feel right with me. But not because they are not men, but because as you said sexuality is a complex thing and it’s more about physicalities than gender.

    Thanks for the addendum and sorry again for making it look like I was invalidating trans women, not my intention at all.


  • Fushuan [he/him]@lemm.eeto196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneWisdom Rule
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    1 month ago

    I specifically didn’t mention trans women, just women with male genitalia just because of that. There are cis women that also operate their genitalia, dunno. The only difference would be the child bearing thing AFAIK and that’s not really something related to attraction in my eyes.

    I don’t understand why you call saying that sexuality is a spectrum and is separate from gender identity, box labelling project. I used different words but in the end it’s the same point.





  • Fushuan [he/him]@lemm.eeto196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneWisdom Rule
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    1 month ago

    And yet, many wouldn’t say that a man liking a woman with a penis is 100% straight. Same goes the other way, a cis girl liking a man with a vagina might not be considered 100% straight in a lot of places.

    I consider everyone on different places of the bi spectrum and people that don’t mind same gender genitalia would fall a bit more to the center of that spectrum that people that don’t in my eyes.

    I’m not confronting your comment about gender identity, I 100% agree, I just want to separate gender identity with sexuality since gender identity is mostly an inwarda thing (how you feel) while sexuality is mostly an outwards thing (what physicalities you feel attracted to).



  • Fushuan [he/him]@lemm.eeto196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneWisdom Rule
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    1 month ago

    I know you are joking, but bisexual erasure is real and what you just did is like telling someone that said they like same sex people that it’s just a phase and that they are actually straight.

    Again, I knw you are joking but it kinda pissed me off so I had to comment. Sorry not sorry I guess.








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